Dear Helper Helperton.


START HELPING OUT OUR OWN HOUSEHOLD INSTEAD OF EVERYONE ELSE'S!

I'm tired of it. Seriously. Here I am, lone housewife while you work 40+ hours a week. And I'm okay with it. I'm okay with you wanting me to just stay home. Fine. Whatever. Even though I'd prefer to work...
But for the love of God, can you let me be the housewife! Don't yell at me when I clean the house that I can't touch this and I can't touch that, and that you don't want me to use the carpet scrubber because you want to do it. You act like there is a science to using it...THERE ISN'T. It's a freaking scrubber. You just like to have your hands in everything. OH WAIT! You want your hands in everything all the time, but you never actually GET IT DONE.

Instead, you take the scrubber to your mothers house while you are using her washer and dryer while she's at work.
BUT YOU DON"T EVEN BOTHER BRINGING IT HOME.

It's been up there for 2 weeks.
She's a grown woman. If she wants her carpets scrubbed. She'll freaking scrub them.

In the meantime, our house (THAT WE DON'T OWN, WE FREAKING RENT) is getting cruddier and cruddier every day because you can't take your work boots off at the door...on the rug placed there specifically for shoes!!!!!!!!!
I'm getting sick and tired of everyone getting all of your energy...and me, just getting your mouth.

If we need something fixed...it takes weeks. If someone else needs something fixed, you bring it home, and diddle around with it.

Stop trying to be everyone's saviour.

If we're ever going to be a family...can you start acting like it at home first?

This is just a small example. There's not enough ink in the world to write everything that's happened in the past 5 years like this...


Thanks.....for the irritation.